Do men like foreplay? For sure YES! The analogy is really simple. The more and better the foreplay, the greater the sexual tension; and the greater the sexual tension, the more powerful the climax.
Also, men are already known to come faster than women during sex, so foreplay can be a good way for him to constantly get turned on while you reach your own sexual height.
Foreplay movement n. 1: look, but don’t touch
Get involved and star in your own public show tonight. Use the element of surprise by simply walking in front of your man in the living room (or while lying in bed) completely naked. Pretend nothing is wrong and start twisting, bending, and twisting to give her images she can’t believe she’s seeing.
Of course, his tendency would be to grab you for lovemaking after seeing you in your ‘compromising positions’ but don’t let him. Instead, ask him what else he wants to see or see you do.
When you feel like you’ve tortured him enough, give in a little and say “ok, now you can use your index finger and touch me ONCE anywhere you want.” He can then touch you again, but this time for a longer period of time.
Let this continue until I beg you to let me touch you!
Preliminary Move # 2: Who’s the Dad Now?
He’s so used to being the boss between the sheets, right? Well tonight, show him who the real boss is!
To get off to a good start, you have to be the one to take the first step. That’s right; be the one to initiate sex. For example, if you are already in the bedroom ready to end the night, be sure to deliberately undress in front of him. If he asks you what you are doing, ignore him! Then get into bed and give him a good kiss while you rub your hand (or yourself) against his growing member.
In a moment, you will probably want to take the kidneys. If this happens, stop it. If he makes a move to land on you, push him back onto the bed and get down on him! When you want something oral of your own, get on his face. Never lose control of the situation.
When you’re ready for a pushing action, get on top of him instead of doing the missionary position.
Previous move # 3: up and down, up and down …
If you really want to delay your orgasm, try the start and stop technique. For example, do fellatio and when you feel that you are so far away that you are about to come, stop what you are doing and focus on other parts of your body.
When you are a little relaxed, return to your member, but this time, just use your hands. When he’s ready to burst, relax again and kiss him hot and wet on the lips. (Keep in touch. Don’t stop everything you’re doing. That would be cruel!)
Now return to his member by sitting on it and riding it. Kick back when she’s so hot and play with her nipples.
Not only does this stop-and-go technique delay your orgasm, but since you never know what you’re going to do next, it’s wildly erotic.
Dos and Don’ts of Foreplay
It is important to be CREATIVE when it comes to foreplay. However, sometimes practicality must also be part of the mix. Just because something has been mentioned A LOT in some women’s or relationship magazine doesn’t mean you have to jump on the train too. For a quick guide, read on to find out what MEN think are great and not so great ideas to do during foreplay.
Naked photos. You know he likes to look naked. So why not give him a nude picture of you? Of course, you would have to REALLY trust him to give you a nude photo or else you risk seeing yourself displayed in all your nude glory on the internet! However, here is an idea that can bring the best of both worlds.
Have your digital camera ready next to your body. As he’s riding it, reach out, hand him the digital camera, and have him take a picture of you, ONCE. That will give him, and you, a huge adrenaline rush. Then during the glow, look at the picture together and then delete it.
So you made one of her sexual fantasies come true AND practiced security by deleting the image immediately afterward. There is no risk of meeting online now.
Be a different woman tonight. Role play can be very exciting. You see, most men DO NOT want to treat their woman with anything less than gallant in bed for fear of being labeled tough, dirty, or even weird. That doesn’t mean they don’t want to! As for you, you might want to have rough sex from time to time. The solution, be a different woman tonight by wearing a completely different wig.
For example, if you are a brunette, go blonde or vice versa. Give no clue and just walk into the bedroom naked with nothing but the different wig. That’s an instant turn-on for your man and you both have a license to go crazy tonight.
A little slavery … Women love to be pleased down there, so why not make it more exciting for him and yourself by incorporating a little bondage? Have one of your silk ties close by or wear silk stockings that you can remove during sex and then ask him to tie your hands loosely as he perches on you. Later, ask her if she wants you to return the favor. A silk tie or pair of silk stockings is not nearly as threatening as a handcuff rope, so this is a great way to try bondage to begin with.
Write dirty words … on his chest. While brushing his teeth, stroke and stroke him to let the sexuality flow. And then, take out your red hot lipstick and start writing the sexiest and / or dirtiest words you can think of on her chest. Write it backwards so you can read it on the bathroom mirror.
WHAT NOT TO DO
Chocolate syrup is overrated! Don’t get me wrong, chocolate syrup can be a great foreplay item. However, don’t overdo it. There is a fine line between wet and sticky, and sexy and dirty. For example, pouring some chocolate syrup on her breasts for him to lick them off is sexy. Putting some on his member for you to lick it is hot too.
However, pouring an entire bottle or tube of chocolate syrup all over your body is messy and sticky. In addition, it produces strange, squeaky and unsexy sounds between their bodies during intercourse.
Stiletto heels. Wearing nothing but high heels is wildly sexy. But take them off when you lie down to have sex. Those pointy things are damn dangerous!
Sex lubricants and lotions. Be picky when using sexual lubricants and lotions. Some of them may smell good, but once you taste them … yuck! Major turn off. So next time you want to try a product, try it first before you go and pour it all over your body.