Getting your ex back fast is a lot like taking down a cat stuck high up in a tree. The cat doesn’t want to come down, you don’t know how to reach it, and neither of you is happy. So here are 4 surefire ways to bring the cat down… um, get your ex back fast.
Ask for help – Really. Even if relationships are personal matters, it’s obvious you screwed up big time. You need the advice of an expert and the help of a professional, be it a family member, a close friend or a therapist. Another factor in favor of asking for outside help is that it gives you an objective view, something that is sorely lacking in a broken relationship.
Learn to climb: Here’s the thing: your cat is up a tree and you have to get it down, so take a deep breath and start climbing. In other words, get closer to where her ex is at, in terms of what she wants from you. The argument and breakup is likely due to something your ex wanted from you that she was unable to do or provide. So do it.
Get another cat: It may sound crazy, but sometimes the best way to get something you really want is to stop wanting it. Get on with your life: start dating, find something to keep yourself busy. If your obsession with your ex goes away, you will see the world in a new light, and your ex will notice the change in you and suddenly want you back, trust me. Works.
Buy new cat food: Appearance matters, especially in a broken relationship. You can bet your bottom dollar that your ex is your ex because he was less attracted to you than before. Spend some thoughts thinking about what your ex first liked in you, and if he has lost that ‘magic’. If you have, get it back: new haircut, new clothes, cologne, whatever… The raw heat of physical attraction will make all other problems in a relationship disappear or seem trivial.