Many men long to be slaves to their wives’ 24/7 chastity. But, society and the upbringing of men being what they are, it is often a very difficult wish for a man to express to himself, much less to articulate it to his wife.
The 24/7 chastity slave
The biggest misconception about the need and desire that many men have to submit to their wives is that it makes them less of a man.
In fact, as unfortunate and wrong as it is to do so, the concepts of “slavery” and “feminization” are often confused in women’s minds, and they automatically assume that if their man wants to be their slave, then he must also want to look forced to dress like a woman and be less than a man to her.
And this is completely false. Because although there are many men who to do want that, the vast majority do not.
Most men who want to become their wives’ slaves do so for completely different reasons.
The three most common I’ve found are:
- They know on a deep, visceral level that they are not living up to the promises they made to their wives when they got married.. Whether this has any basis in fact or not is not the point. that’s how he feel. The fact is that he is usually no more to blame than her wife for allowing the marriage to get “comfortable,” especially between the sheets, but it hits him more than her. Sex is more important than what it is to his wife. She is much more interested, primarily, in emotional intimacy, and this is definitely something that makes a man a chastity slave.
- They feel that focusing on their wives’ needs, both physical and emotional, will give both of them more satisfaction.. This is almost always true. A woman can make love all night and have almost unlimited orgasms, each one more powerful than the last. What’s more, the older she gets, at least until menopause, the more skilled she becomes. Unlike the more men are out of their sexual prime by the time they are in their 30s. By the time you’re a married couple in your early 40s, chances are her wife needs a lot more love than she’s giving.
- Orgasm denial, itself, is exquisitely pleasurable.. You’ll have to take this on faith, as I do myself. My husband, who enjoys perhaps two or three orgasms a year, and who will soon be practicing strict and permanent denial, tells me that the feeling is like “being halfway to orgasm all the time.” I trust his word (as any woman should take she man’s word for it, too, and only enjoy it).
It’s all too easy for a woman to become analytical about all of this and wonder “why.”
There is no need.