After doing this, your girlfriend will be more intensely attracted to you, want to be closer to you AND be less motivated to have a “wandering eye.”
So what is this special trick?
I’ll tell you about it in a moment, but first I want to help you take a look at the life of the typical young woman in college…
The average girl in college is TRAPPED.
Yes it’s correct. Most 20-year-olds, especially if they’re attractive, are told what to do by almost everyone they meet.
Let’s start with your parents. Dad feels very insecure about sending his baby to school. One way or another, he wants to make sure his girl is safe and secure. Every dad may have a different approach, but most dads are probably trying to tell their daughters what to do all the time. If you’re not telling your daughter what to do, you’re silently disapproving of what her daughter is doing, and she knows it.
A college girl’s friends are extremely important to her. She is often limited by the expectations of her friends, who expect her to act a certain way at certain times.
College girls also have to deal with the expectations of their boyfriends. It’s also EXTREMELY common to see attractive girls with boyfriends who are a little too jealous and controlling. So now they always have to deal with that too.
Like I said, college girls are TRAPPED. Everywhere you look, someone is trying to tell you how to act. That is exactly why when you ENCOURAGE HER TO BE INDEPENDENT, she will love you for it.
Thats the secret. Encourage her to be independent. Encouraging her to be independent also shows that YOU are independent. It makes you more attractive to her. When you’re needy and clingy, he likes you less and less. Need is death to attraction. When you do the opposite, as simple as it seems, she will see you in a VERY unique way, because no one else is telling her that she is independent. Jealousy is such a bad quality. It’s so bad, being jealous actually INCREASES the chance of her cheating on you. Don’t be jealous, encourage their independence. She will start to think of you as “one in a million” because you really are.
He’ll also appreciate having the opportunity to spread his wings a bit.
The next time she wants to have a girls’ night out, tell her to have fun! In fact, suggest it. If she wants to go do something or try something new, be her support person. You can even playfully help her find another guy so she can get your back on her! She just remembers when you do this, she finds the nerdiest guy in the crowd and says “he looks like your guy!”. Usually she will laugh. Try it. She go chat with your girl right now and get her to talk about what she wants to do that she hasn’t done yet. Then she go and tell her to do it! Give strong words of encouragement. You could say, “Honey, I see so much potential in you that you’d probably be surprised. When you talk about doing X, honestly, I’m surprised you haven’t done it yet because I know you’re so much more capable than that… Do it! I know you can.” handle it…”