The holidays are a great time to show that special person in your life that you are thinking of them. Whether it’s the girl in your office you’ve been eyeing, a friendship you want to take to the next level, or someone you’ve been seeing for a while, the art of gift-giving can say a lot in a very few words. Giving a gift is part of modern social conversation and the perfect opportunity to show your thoughtfulness and charm. It is a simple and generous gesture that can generate remarkable appreciation and general feelings of happiness. And who doesn’t want happy feelings? Here are three quick things to keep in mind.
* Buy her something she wouldn’t buy. What is that luxury item that she saw recently but would never buy for herself? Think interesting art or decadent chocolates. This gift doesn’t have to break the bank, it can be a scented candle or a beautifully made scarf. Remember to watch for her cues, women tend to talk about things they like.
*Give him an experience. Not all gifts have to come in bow-tied boxes. There are some great gifts that come in the form of special event tickets tucked into a card, or a memorable evening out on the town, or a series of dance lessons. These are great because it can be an opportunity to spend time with that person without the need or stress of calling it a “date.” Remember: if you are giving her the gift of an experience, make sure there is something small for her to open. Perhaps a card with tickets inside, or even a small pair of gloves, if the experience is ice skating.
*Use your strengths. Are you a great cook? Cook him a meal. A spectacular tennis player? Give him a lesson. Computer genius? Set up something special for your computer. Use the strengths you have in your repertoire and give him the gift of your time and energy. Women love to see a man excel at something he enjoys. Remember: make the gift official with a card that indicates your gift.
No matter the gift or your budget, don’t forget the old adage that “it’s the idea that counts.” Take the opportunity to show your kindness and inventiveness. There is one last thing to remember: don’t forget to sign the card.