When you are full of self-doubt, the tendency is that you don’t know how to fight for yourself. What’s worse is that other people can easily control it, even if it’s against their will.
You have to fight for your right.
Be proud of who you are.
Defend yourself.
Don’t let fear stop you. If you continue to live in a world of cowardice, you will never see the beauty of life. Living means taking risks and going beyond your comfort zone. The world is too big to allow one person to manipulate you. This is what you have to do …
Know you have the right
When you negotiate with a manipulative person, you must be aware that your rights have been trampled on. Always remember that you have the privilege of standing up for yourself, especially if you are not respected as an individual.
The manipulators will steal your rights so that they have dominion over you. It is just “you: who has the power to rule your life. Be in charge.
Stop blaming yourself
You are not to blame. Everyone has a weakness and it is up to you how you can overcome it. Being able to overcome deficiencies is the way we grow stronger as people. Never think that you are the problem. What turns bad is when you let that person continue to manipulate you.
Know how to say “no”
There is nothing wrong with expressing how you feel, especially if it goes against your morals. We all have different principles that govern our lives, so individual differences must be respected. Be firm with your decisions. Keep in mind that saying “no” is simply admitting how you really feel and are privileged to do so.
Defend your position
A person can only intimidate you if you let them. Don’t show your weakness and show them that you are strong. Take the control. For once in your life, live in freedom, free yourself from the limitations of fear.
All of these things are easier said than done. But how can you change your situation if you don’t start to decide for yourself? If you want to achieve something, take the next step. Respect is something you have to earn. The moment you do not recognize your right as a person, that is when you lose your individuality. Respect yourself first and everything else will follow.