The dilemma of being in control of someone else’s life is one of the biggest situations and biggest responsibilities you will ever have to face while here on this planet. Having the love and loyalty of a cat or dog is one of the greatest gifts you will ever receive in return. As they age or are injured, it is up to us to become their caregivers and make all the decisions regarding their longevity, health, and the best course of action to take.
As their owner (I really don’t like this term) you are responsible for them as they cannot speak and let you know how much pain they are in and this is one of the many challenges you will face when the time comes. My personal opinion is irrelevant as you yourself will see and know when and what to do once the situation starts to deteriorate. If you’re looking for some guidelines, I’ve taken the time to put together a few tips for you.
Signs that it is time to think about making a decision
- Can’t your pet walk?
- Is your pet incontinent?
- Has your pet stopped eating?
- Has your pet stopped drinking?
- Is he or she just not themselves?
- Are they uncomfortable and restless?
These are all questions you will receive from your veterinary professional along with others depending on the condition your loved one is suffering from. These are the things to think about if you are considering euthanasia.
Whether you choose euthanasia or let life take its course is your own personal decision. But my personal theory is that if you can alleviate some suffering, why wouldn’t you? Our own selfishness gets in the way sometimes as we know this is the last time we will ever hug or see them so we hold on a little longer. If you have the strength to ease some of their suffering, I think that’s a gift. Being with them as they pass by is also a gift you can give them, the comfort of your hand and your voice as they run away I think would have a calming and calming effect. This also requires strength on our behalf, all this strength is sometimes difficult to muster, but if we can, I think it is our final gift to them.
Once your loved one has passed away, you may be wondering where they will go next. You can cremate or bury your pet. This is also a personal choice and only you and your family can decide. Pet cremation urns are available and some are stunning and there are also some beautiful and peaceful pet cemeteries for you to choose from. This means that the family must make more decisions at a very emotional time, once again on behalf of their loyal and loving fur baby.