If you’re an Asian guy who wants to know how to date that white woman at the mall, then get in line. As an Asian male born and raised in California, I have noticed complaints over the years. I know how it is, because I used to be a whiner. A few years ago I noticed that some of my Asian friends and relatives were attractive and dated white girls all the time. They weren’t rich or handsome, but they had a certain aura about themselves that set them apart from the rest.
So what does it take?
Confidence – Whether you’re a “newcomer,” short, or ugly, confidence will get you a long way. It’s probably all you need. I’m not talking about being cocky or arrogant, just constant inner confidence.
Social – Do you try to be friendly or just hang out with the same Asian team? Say hello and say thank you, ask people about them, etc. Don’t have the same serious gangster look of the Asian triad. You may be a gangster, but you’re not tough because white girls make you nervous.
Assimilation – White women are mostly westernized, so you have to make an effort to assimilate. I’ll tell you one thing for sure. Looking like a Taiwanese pop star might get you followed in the motherland, but not in the US.
stop complaining – Man, if I had to point out one setback Asians have is all the whining they spit. How they have had bad luck in the world of dating, etc. I could go on with this, but it bothers me too much. From a more primitive core, whiny men generally turn women off. If you want to be a girlfriend, take my guess.
Why being Asian is an advantage:
In my opinion, being Asian is a great advantage because I constantly go under the radar. And since many Asians will remain stuck in their own world, competition is low. Yes, I’m talking about you.
I’m 5’8″ at best and 140 lbs so can’t be mistaken for a model and I’ve picked up hot white girls from the hottest clubs from Hollywood to Barcelona. I’m not getting into any games. theory because you can find a lot of that stuff online, but what I’m going to show you is how to attract a girl into your Asian world.
Now, I’m not saying you should transform into a white guy, but I strongly suggest you stay away from your droopy Honda, streaked hair, or Korean-American college club. Stick to the basics of adventure… food and travel.
You can qualify a girl by asking her if she’s been with an Asian man before, if she’s a fan of sushi, or if she’s traveled to Asia before. If she reacts positively to your grades, whether she answers yes or no, you have a winner.
Learning how to kiss or convey your sexuality seems to be a problem for Asian men. Just have a backbone and go for it. If it doesn’t work, make it look like it wasn’t a big deal.