Do you know how to turn a crush into love? Would you like to take your relationship to the next level? Would you like to turn a flirtation into a lasting love? It’s easier than you think if you do these three things that will turn your crush into love.
Subtlety Let him know you’re interested
You may be having a crush fest with a guy, but you and he don’t know how to take it any further. Guys are just as afraid of being rejected as women. That is why some of them are hesitant to take the next step to make an appointment.
However, if you let him know you’re open to a deeper relationship with subtle hints, he won’t have any reason to be afraid of asking you out.
Talk casually about a movie coming out and mention that you want to see it. Tell him about a great club you’ve heard of and would like to check out. Remind him of an upcoming sporting event that you are both interested in.
Remember, you don’t want to ask him out. You just want to give him an opportunity that he can drop by to ask you out without fear of rejection.
Show him you like him – warts and all
None of us is perfect and men can be just as critical of themselves as women. Act like you find their minor flaws attractive. Share some of your own personal shortcomings so he realizes he’s not alone and that you’re just as flawed as he is. Accept your imperfections and his and let him know you like him, warts and all. Make light of your shortcomings and explore how you can help each other to turn bad habits or behaviors into positive assets. And by doing this together in a light-hearted way, you can quickly take the feelings of a crush and turn them into love.
Don’t rush to the bedroom
It’s easy to be tempted to up the ante in your relationship by sleeping together, but that just puts pressure on both of you that you don’t need if you want your crush to become love. By sleeping together too quickly, instead of infatuation turning into love, it can easily turn into lust. And early lust isn’t automatically a springboard to love. Develop your common interests. Enjoy shared experiences. Become her friend before you become her lover. Anticipation is a great aphrodisiac that can help you get to know yourself better and develop deeper feelings. This way, when you finally have sex, it will be more meaningful. As anyone can tell you, good sex, even great sex, is always better when you have it with someone you love.
With a little patience, time, caring, and sharing, you can easily turn a crush into love.