One of the best ways to create a hypnotic effect with your story is to use multiple threads. This means opening other stories, within the story you are telling. When you do this, you are building anticipation and inviting the listener to ask questions, allowing them to become more involved in your story. This is known in NLP as nested loops and is one of the most powerful techniques you can use to draw people into your story.
Don’t rush to finish your story. Instead, allow it to branch out into other areas. It’s interesting to listen to the best storytellers every time they tell the same story, because there are always different elements and tangents. The final punch line is not the goal: the whole experience is what makes a story amazing. With many master storytellers, the point is never the joke.
They can explore different areas of the story to build anticipation and intrigue and wait for the listener to take them back to a main story element. It is important that when you tell your story indirectly you leave unanswered questions in the listeners’ minds.
By opening up different threads when you are telling your story, you can easily convey your value and attractive qualities. Remember, the goal of your story is to increase your value and highlight your good qualities. By practicing this tool, you can keep people fascinated for hours. It is a secret known to all great public speakers. Here’s an example of opening different threads to bring the conversation to the areas you want to highlight.
“I actually remember where I saw her now… I was walking in the park with my ex-girlfriend Sinead last week and I saw this really fat man, I mean this guy must have weighed at least 200kg, and he was talking to the park attendant… He definitely looked like a foreigner and was walking the most amazing dog I had ever seen…
Thread one: “When I was young, I used to work on my uncle’s farm in the summer and I love animals… I mean, I’m one of those guys who can talk to horses and I’ve been around animals all my life.” . …For my birthday…”
“So I went over and bent down to pet the dog… After a few seconds, the fat man turned around and said
Omg this dog never lets anyone pet him except me
I think he was amazed but also a little hurt that his dog would let someone pet him… So I explained to him that working with animals on my uncle’s farm and that I love animals…”
Thread two: “Since I moved to the city, I was busy because I started to work in a new school and I want to settle in my new job… “Actually, it is a very nice school and…”
“After a few minutes we all decided to go for coffee because I was pretty tired from the night before and needed some energy…The guy was really really nice and we had a great chat…I found out he was from Germany and he was going to live in Berlin again in two weeks…”
Thread three: “Actually, I was working in the same hotel that I had stayed in when I visited Berlin 3 years ago… It was a really amazing city.”
The example above shows you how to implement different threads in your story. You can experiment and open different threads based on your story. Setting up the thread is imperative, as this allows the story to continue smoothly and naturally. Once you master this ability, you will stray into any area you choose, and in doing so, easily bring out your attractive qualities.
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