Most of the time, masturbation is an activity that a man performs alone. Sure, men may occasionally (especially as teenagers) find themselves in a situation where they masturbate with a friend or they may be in a relationship where sex play includes shared masturbation. But most of the time, a man masturbates by himself, as a way to have fun and maintain penis care while keeping his virility in exercise.
But some men participate in masturbation clubs. These are group masturbation sessions with other people in a certain place and time. A newbie wishing to explore this option may find the tips in this article helpful.
Advice
A masturbation club can be a rewarding way for a man to “open up” his masturbation experience in a new way. However, as a newbie, there are a few things about masturbation clubs that a man should know.
– Mix. Some masturbation clubs (usually called cat clubs) are for men only. Some (often called jack and jill clubs) are open to both genders. It is a good idea to check in advance what type of club you can attend. Some men are happy to masturbate in any type of group setting. Others may have strong feelings about whether they masturbate in front of men or women. Keep in mind, however, that even in Jack and Jill clubs, there tend to be more men involved than women.
The choice does not necessarily depend on sexual orientation. Many straight men prefer to masturbate only with other men in a club setting. They may be looking for a male bonding experience or may feel uncomfortable openly masturbating in front of a woman.
– Stick to masturbation. Many men enter a masturbation club thinking that masturbation will simply be the first step towards a more complicated sexual experience. In most clubs, this is not the case: oral sex, anal sex, and intercourse are often prohibited. Whether masturbation means masturbating only oneself or whether it can be expanded to include touching another person varies from club to club; It is recommended to know the rule in a particular club before starting.
– Keep it impersonal. Many club participants prefer to remain anonymous. If a newbie sees someone they know at the club, they can nod to welcome them or give a short “hello” and see if their acquaintance responds. If he doesn’t, don’t push him; the acquaintance may have a preference for privacy which must be respected.
– No pictures. It’s a “selfie age,” but refrain from taking photos in a club. Even if the image is meant to be a selfie, a guy may accidentally include someone else in the image or may cause others to worry that they are being filmed without their consent.
– Unclothed. Again, the rules vary from club to club, but most require that their members be essentially naked. (There are often exceptions for footwear).
– Keep clean. Clearly, a room full of men masturbating is going to generate a lot of ejaculation. Every man should be responsible for cleaning up what he gets dirty. Clubs tend to provide towels or tissues, but some men prefer to bring their own.
A newbie may initially feel a bit self-conscious at a masturbation club, which is all the more reason to use a top-notch penis health cream. (Health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven to be gentle and safe for the skin) so that the member looks proud and healthy. Many common penile skin problems can be alleviated with a cream that includes moisturizing agents and a powerful antioxidant. A high-end emollient (like shea butter) and a natural moisturizer (like vitamin E) combine to combat dry, brittle skin on the penis. And an antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid is great at fighting oxidative stress that makes the skin on the penis appear wrinkled and aged. With an attractive penis, a newbie is better able to enter a masturbation club looking his best.