Introduction
Many men may develop a romantic (or at least sexual) interest in their dance teacher. Then of course they have thoughts about seducing her. This is not unusual or surprising. If he spends that much time with a woman and gets that close to her, then of course he will start to think of her this way. Chances are your dance teacher is also very attractive. Most dance instructors are attractive, both physically and in terms of personality. Dancing is a good form of exercise (especially if you do it for work), so chances are your dance teacher has a great body. Most people interested in dancing also have a very good sense of presentation and style, which is why they probably wear makeup and dress well as well. This would just add to how attractive she is. But what could be even more attractive is his personality. Because dance is highly sexual and traditional in regards to gender roles, your dance teacher is likely to have a very engaging and attractive personality. Put all this together and it’s no wonder you’re drawn to her. She’s also going to be nice to you, because you’re a customer, and this will make you feel like you have a chance. This combination of high attraction and a sense of potential will make you seriously think about seducing your dance teacher.
understanding the situation
So now you are in a place where you want to know how to seduce your dance teacher. Before we talk a little more about this, I want to review the situation. You probably already feel like this is different from other situations where you’ve wanted to pick up a woman. This is probably the reason why you have ended up reading this article. So, what problems are there unique to choosing your dance teacher?
You are not the only student that has. In your mind, your dance teacher is a unique person. You see her once or twice a week. You are one of the many students he sees in a week. Just think of how many other students you could see in a week. Then you’ll realize that you probably don’t ‘explode’ in your head as much as she does in yours. So don’t assume the feelings are likely to be mutual.
You are not likely to be the first student to try to pick it up. This carries over from the previous point. Your teacher is probably sensitive to this and can tell you if you’re interested. Therefore, it is likely that he will know before you tell him anything. This means that he may have already prepared to counter your advances; this is the safe option for her. This will make such a seduction more challenging than others.
There will be implications if you try and fail. I know of two dance teachers who have had to ask their students to change teachers after their advances were rejected. However, in both cases it was not the first time the student had tried it. Both women had enough experience to continue. But think about what could happen if you try. You have to be prepared for this.
Aren’t there other women in your dance school? You may be too captivated by your teacher to realize that there are other women in your dance school. You may have a better chance of success if you consider other women in dance school. Also, your dance teacher is probably an excellent source of information and advice. You don’t need an assistant when you have a dance teacher who can use the dance teacher network to find out about every other woman in the class. You’ve probably noticed that teachers talk about students among themselves. Not only that, but they usually like it when students get together. That means you can expect good advice from your teacher about other dance students.
So there are a number of things to consider before trying to seduce your dance teacher. If after thinking about these things you still want to try to lift it, then there are a few things to remember.
If you’re still sure you want to pick up your dance teacher
She’s still a woman, so the basics of what she finds attractive are the same for her as for any other woman. If you feel like you’re not very good at picking up women in general, then that’s something you can learn more about. It’s not what I’m talking about in this article, so I won’t go into more detail here, other than to suggest you consider looking at other articles on this website.
However, there are some problems unique to the situation you find yourself in. Because you are a student you are in a weaker position. Usually women prefer a stronger man. This is probably more for dance teachers. As I said before, the dance is traditional when it comes to the relationship between the sexes. Therefore, a dance teacher is likely to want a more traditional (and strong) man. Therefore, you need to make sure that you look like a strong man. So don’t see your teacher as someone you need to impress. See her as a person who is helping you become a better dancer. When you make sure that it is about you and she is part of your plan, then you will have the dominant position.
This means that you may need to change the way you approach dancing.
Perform outside of class to improve your dancing. Read books on dance, attend other dance events and classes, and take steps to improve dance attributes. Maybe he will work on his musicianship or fitness. If you think the way she teaches isn’t ideal for you, talk to her about it. Don’t be unreasonable, she’s been teaching for a while, but she raises issues so you don’t seem passive and weak. Basically, you are managing your progression in the dance and she is there to help you do it.
Women who want to seduce their dance teacher
This article has focused on men. However, women will sometimes want the same thing. The difference here is that the male dance instructor is probably more open to a sexual encounter with a student. I know women who have had sex with their instructor. However, I also know of a few dance teachers who have been bullied by their dance students. If you’re trying to build a relationship with a male dance teacher, then realize that he’s probably having sex with a couple of her students. And you will have to make him believe that he would want to drop that for you.
a big no
Don’t think gifts will work. Freebies make it look like you’re trying to buy attraction. And attraction just doesn’t work like that. Still, you’re not likely to be the only person buying gifts for your teacher.