How deep and meaningful the connection you would like to forge with another person is, in most cases, is entirely up to us. That is, how far are you willing to walk for others? For absolutely nothing in return? Because that is the foundation and foundation of all deep and meaningful connections. It is the spark of the beginning of a true friendship and a lasting relationship when someone does something for you completely out of good will and goodness in their hearts.
Recently, with all my new projects and campaigns going on, it really made me feel a deep appreciation and gratitude for the people around me who are involved in one way or another, with them extending their help and expertise in more ways than one. Learning to walk the extra miles in whatever we do, whether for ourselves or others, empowers us to perform better in our daily activities. We fully scrutinize it and commit to an inclusion. Just like our muscles require you to use them frequently to get stronger, build strength and stamina, extra miles are the same.
If you are used to doing things with an attitude of reluctance and resentment, there will be no real substance or concrete evidence of your fingerprints on everything you touch. Go all the way above and beyond, or don’t lift a finger at all. Because how would you like to reach the end of the path, turn around and not see a trace of the steps you have taken on this path? You don’t remember where you’ve been, what you’ve done, or the fluttering moments that took your breath away and made your heart skip a beat. If each step you took that touched someone’s heart in one way or another left an imprint on your path so that you can go back and retrace each step when you leave this earth to take with you, allowing you to watch it play on a screen, would you be Willing to drop a couple more?
I will never forget Gerald Way’s words that I came across a long time ago when I was younger and made me sit back and reflect on my own life and travel choices. He said, “One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.” I have to say that I started from humble beginnings to be able to have so many contrasts in my life experiences that allowed me the opportunity to see it from two different ends of the stick. He made me learn to appreciate so much more, when he stopped looking at all the things he didn’t have. The more things I appreciated around me, the more I began to have.
I grew up believing that it was circumstances that made us who we are, and it took me a while to realize that’s not the case at all. We all have a choice. A choice to become what we were destined to become through thick and thin and share our gifts with anyone who comes in contact with our work, our services, our true human flesh, blood and skin. The journey may not be short to get there, but it’s a process we all have to go through to know what we want. How would you know what you want if you don’t know what you don’t want? Only old habits and beliefs that don’t serve you the best are the worst, and the only way that leads you straight into a brick wall where, on the other side, it’s a “stranger” to you.
You can’t see it, so you fear it, and you keep taking steps back instead of finding that deck and start working to break it little by little every day. The little consistent effort really counts. If you stay true to our heart’s desires steadfastly and stick to them from start to finish, you will be happy no matter what the outcome. Because you would have fallen in love and stayed in love through it all, and it wouldn’t even matter what happens in the end. Whatever you do for yourself, be it exercise routine choice, diet meal plan, budgeting and spending methods, go through the options and try them all and find one that really suits your tastes and is enjoyable. for you and for “you”. good doing it
It’s the only way you can begin to learn to give your one hundred percent attention and have excess knowledge or joy to share with the people you know, the people you love the most. That is the true value of the extra miles. You can’t do much for others if you don’t make sure you have enough for yourself. How do you expect to run an extra 10 miles if the soles of your shoes wear down and break down? Either you spend the money to buy a new pair that you’d love, or you take good care of them right now so they stay in tip-top shape and last you longer for a longer period of time. Either way, you have to do something about it to make sure the rest of your journey is easier for you. Be solution oriented.
Putting in the extra miles is easy when you’ve practiced and built up your stamina to make sure you’ve packed enough fuel and energy to sustain your ride. It all comes down to practice. The only thing you need to practice in life to master anything you care about and want to learn is the ability to focus. Your ability to concentrate, and the ability to not take everything so seriously. Especially yourself! Of course, that ties closely to knowing how to have fun in the process to create enjoyment and happiness for yourself. Give yourself the space you need while doing this and you will find emotional freedom. You will be able to touch people in one way or another wherever you go and leave them a part of you. Kindness really goes a long way, along with the extra miles you take.