Most teens associate the idea of sex and prom. If you hope to avoid the hurdles this often has, one of the best things you can do is plan your post-prom in such a way as to ensure that there are no problems. In other words, look for things to do and places to go that are unlikely to lead to a sexual encounter. Just because you don’t want to have sex after prom night doesn’t mean you can’t have a lot of fun that night. Here are some ideas.
One idea is to do what your school is doing! Many of the high schools will host activities after prom. These can be simple nights, like everyone getting together for another party. They can have a variety of activities, food, and dancing. Post-prom activities are much less stressful and formal than the event itself. They are a time to “have fun” without the threat of alcohol or sex. Most of them arrive late at night, even two or three in the morning. After prom is a great way to avoid the sexual situation.
Another idea is to just go home. You may want to come home after your prom. If you’re happy with the evening, say goodnight to your date and head home. On the other hand, you might want to keep the magic going for a few more hours. You may be able to make arrangements with your parents to invite some friends to watch movies. With parents at home, sexual encounters are highly unlikely, but they will still be safe and happy together.
There are also a few other ways you can enjoy this after prom time. For example, you could go to an all-night restaurant for coffee and talking. You could go to a bowling alley to play some games and avoid the sexual situation. You could go to your favorite movie theater to see a late night movie. In short, you want to do something that is fun and holds you together, but keeps you out of sexual situations. Why not go to the beach with friends?
There are many ways to enjoy yourself after prom without having to worry about your sexual situation. Go ahead and talk to your date to make sure they know this is what you want. That way, both of you will have less pressure to avoid the sexual encounter and focus more on having fun on this important night. Stay away from places where it could happen.
You see, there are many ways to have fun after prom without having to have sex. Hopefully, after reading this humble little article, you’ve learned to enjoy your prom without sex.