Many people are trying to figure out how to get their love back. Most of them are getting advice from people who tell them all wrong. They think that winning back your love requires aggressive pursuit. But no one wants to be harassed like this. If you want to know how to get your love back, keep reading and follow the tips that I will share with you in this article as closely as possible.
The first thing you need to know and understand when you are trying to win your love back is that you do not want to chase your ex. Too many men think they have to go all out on her ex to get her back. So they send hundreds of text messages, emails, cards, messages from friends, and sometimes even flowers. They call at odd hours of the day and night and even border on stalking your ex-girlfriend’s house.
These tactics are so WRONG because they make you look desperate. Women want men who are of the ALPHA genotype. These are men who take charge, who are in control, who take it or leave it. Men who know what they want and have the confident swagger to go after it. Women don’t want subservient, whining men drooling behind them looking weak. When it looks like he can be bossed around like a little puppy, they’ll take full advantage of that.
She will keep messing with your head as long as you keep falling for this trap. This is not the way to get your love back.
I am going to share with you an idea that can be a bit radical.
Instead of chasing her and looking desperate, you should change the situation and start playing with her. This will make her crawl back towards you.
When you’re around a group of people that includes her, flirt a bit with all the girls except her. This has to be subtle. Not too obvious. If there’s a girl in the group you don’t like, give her more attention. This will make your ex angry. She will be thinking about you with these other people and she will not like you.
You might even want to go on a date with one of his friends. Maybe you can send your ex a text saying something like, “now that we’re not together, I wanted to know your opinion on something.” Where should I take ____ for dinner after the movies?’ This will surely arouse your ex’s jealousy which is one of the tricks to win back your love.
If you don’t like mind games, here is another common sense way to win back your love. Be happy. Be happy. Live a full life. Girls like to date fun-loving, happy-go-lucky guys. Focusing on yourself and your own happiness will put you in a much better rhythm to win back your love.
Go to the gym and exercise. Go out with your friends. Take up a hobby that you always wanted to learn but didn’t have time to do while you were dating your ex. Take some girls on dates. Initially, you may have to fake your happiness, but soon you will look up and realize that you really are happy.
Using this method, you will be happy whether you move on or win your love back.